What has brought you here to save your marriage from divorce? Is it because the love has faded from your marriage? Because you are fighting more often than not? Is it because of stress that your marriage does not alleviate? These are among the most common marital problems that can lead to divorce. Do you want some good news for a change? Of course you do! The first step in saving your marriage from divorce is something you have already done...
That first and most integral step is to commit. You already know that you want to improve your marriage, and now you are doing something about it. Can you believe it? The first step is always the hardest, and you are already there! You have taken the initiative to go out and learn what your marriage needs, to learn how to save your marriage from divorce.
Congratulations, YOU are on your way!
Let's take a minute though to remember why this step has value. Your decision to learn and commit to a better marriage has value in that it will lead to other steps. Sometimes those steps will be easy; sometimes they will be hard. Either way, now is the time to get started on saving your marriage from divorce.
Imagine for a moment if you were to pat yourself on the back, and leave it at that. If you didn't move on from this point, then what would happen to your marriage? That's right, it would still be right where it was before. Now is not the time to just relax and hope that things will work out for the best.
One of the most common problems that leads to divorce, is that people do not act on to fix the problems! That may sound obvious, at first; but think about it! Sometimes we just sweep our problems under the rug, and hope that if we ignore them then they will go away. Have you ever done that? I know I have.
Now imagine that 'NOW', that commitment is just the beginning. It is time not only that you are committed, but that you take action. Imagine rekindling that love that was so powerful when you first met your spouse. Do you remember how it felt to hold her hand for the first time? Do you remember feeling those soft wet-warm lips on yours? My friend, that is the closest that we will ever come to magic.
Marriage can be exciting, and strong, and beautiful. Keep your commitment going, and you will see change. You can save your marriage from divorce. How relieving is that thought?
The most important step now is to take action to heal your marriage. I am glad that you are willing to work towards change. You will need that now, more than ever.
I wish you all the best in these upcoming weeks. You have the power to change your life.
Sincerely,
Ben
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